9. Besides your job and being a mother, you also publicly advocate for mothers in the erotic industry. Online, one can read the following quote from you: “The problem is not me being in the industry with a child. The problem is society.” In what way do you experience this? Do you regularly encounter critics? How does it show? How do you deal with it? Are there reactions that make you angry and/or burden you? What would you wish from society in this regard?
Yes, I stand for that and I stand behind it 100%, because I simply believe that the real problem lies with the parents who teach their children what is right and wrong. I will teach my child that every person has the same worth — no matter what they look like, which country they come from, what language they speak, what job they have, or how much money they make. It absolutely doesn’t matter. Anyone can be a nice person, and anyone can be a complete idiot, regardless of anything I just listed. And I think that is exactly what we should teach our children. Then parents also wouldn’t have to worry so much about their kids being bullied at school — for whatever reasons — because they have freckles, wear glasses, or don’t have the newest Nikes.
I often experience people writing things like: “That poor child, it will definitely be bullied at school,” or “Just wait until it sees what you do later,” or people telling me: “Your parents must be so proud of you.” And yes, my parents actually are very proud of me — because I have achieved quite a lot at my age. I stand firmly on my own two feet. I’m doing well, I lack nothing. And what I have done is not easy. You can’t just pull that out of your sleeve.
So yes, they’re proud of me. And honestly, I don’t feel attacked by those comments — they go straight past my ass. First do what I’ve done, then you can talk. But overall, I still believe that society needs to change so much regarding all of this. People need to become more tolerant, stop taking everything so seriously, loosen up — and just spread more love.
10. As a working and single mother, life isn’t easy. Do you have people in your surroundings who catch you when things don’t go as planned? People who lift you up when others ruin your day? Who support you when you need help? How has your career choice affected your relationships with family and friends? Did people from your close circle distance themselves, or did you encounter continuous acceptance?
My daughter lifts me up a lot — when I see her laugh, I forget everything. When I cuddle her, when I’m with her, I forget everything that’s bothering me. And of course, I also have my mom, who has always been like a best friend to me and is always there for me — and my girlfriends, with whom I sometimes just go out for food.
So yes, I do have my favorite people in my life who catch me when things don’t go the way they should. But I’m also a very positive person — I try to see the good in everything. I’m not a negative type at all.
And since I started this job, nothing really changed for me. I still have the same friends as before. I’ve never had many friends anyway, because I believe you should be able to count your true friends on one hand. I didn’t lose anyone because of my job — and even if I had, I wouldn’t want them in my life anyway. Anyone who can’t accept me as I am, I don’t need.
11. Now let’s talk about your sex life. As Tamytation, you seem very versatile — threesomes, anal, some fetishes, sextoys, and especially blowjobs count among your specialties? What have you gained the most experience in so far? You’re in your mid-20s — surely not everything has been explored yet, right? What would you really like to try? Are you strictly heterosexual or flexible?
Yes, I’ve actually tried a lot already, and there are many things I really enjoy. Something I’d definitely love to continue exploring is experiences with girls. That’s extremely fun for me — especially with girls where everything just fits and you can really let loose.
Otherwise, things like bondage or going more into the BDSM direction — I find that super exciting and would love to try it. But also the other way around: I’d love to take on the dominant role and do some dominatrix-style play.
12. When you work intensely with sex every day, do you still have desire, fun, and motivation for private sex? What do you expect when it comes to sex in a relationship? Do you distinguish between content sex and private sex, aside from the camera? And how authentic are you? Do you plan your content in detail — text, practices, positions — designed for maximum engagement, or do you simply go with the flow and are 100% authentic?
Yes, despite the job, I still have desire for private sex — and it is really different than in front of the cam, but also not completely different, because I also do on cam what I feel like doing. I don’t plan everything out 100% beforehand — most of it happens spontaneously. Sometimes you think about what could look good or which position might be exciting. But overall, everything happens based on mood and vibes.
When the camera is off, it’s still different somehow — but both are a lot, a lot of fun for me. I just currently have no one with whom I can pursue that privately. Privately, I’m just using myself at the moment.
13. Which brings us to the question of a new partner. Do you currently have a man in your life? Some time ago you mentioned in a profile that you’re not against meeting followers — maybe your dream man is among them. What has happened since then? Were there offers or inquiries? Have you met potential partners? Or did you meet your dream man on the street, in a club, or at the supermarket? Do you use dating apps? How are your experiences with dating, especially when men find out about your job? Many erotic models describe dating as difficult because men lack acceptance. Do you feel the same?
I’m always open to the love of my life, but I’m not desperately searching for it. I always say: if it’s meant to come, it’ll come. I’m open to it, and who knows — maybe I’ll even find him right here.
But I’m very clear about this: a man has to accept what I do. I will not stop my job for anyone. I need full support — he has to stand 100% behind me.
And yes, I’m also on dating apps, but not very actively. There have been some very, very, very nice guys, but the love of my life wasn’t among them yet.
14. How far do you go in order to find your dream man among the men who contact you through your platforms? How should our readers imagine this, especially those who would like to meet you privately? What qualities do they need to have to date you personally?
It’s really hard to get to know me through social media, because of course many men want to get to know me. So even if it sounds superficial or money-hungry, the most successful — and actually the only — way that really works is messaging me on my pay accounts. Anywhere else, I don’t really respond. You need luck for me to see and answer a message outside those platforms.
So yes, just write to me on the platforms everyone knows — because there I can actually take the time for a person and really respond.
And what’s most important to me in a man is humor. Nothing beats a man with humor — someone who can laugh with me, someone who sees the positive in things. I’m a total morning person. I have tons of energy. There’s nothing better than a man who wakes up in a good mood and could dance through the apartment with me first thing in the morning.
15. Tamytation is a seductive minx who knows how to use her curves; whose eyes sparkle when she gets turned on; who moves with lightness; who radiates natural beauty even without makeup — a sex bomb who has sex appeal even in sweatpants, and whose tattoos contrast beautifully with her sweet facial features. Now is the perfect moment for you to describe yourself. Who are you — what are you like? What do you like — what do you not like? Are you more the sociable party type or the cozy couch potato? Do you prefer harmony and quiet or action and loudness?
What you just said is insanely, insanely awesome — it gave me goosebumps. Who am I, what defines me?
Well, I’m Tamy, and I’m definitely a little crazy. I’m incredibly lovable, incredibly positive. I wake up in the morning with good vibes immediately — I could go jogging right away or shout out into the world how happy I am. And if the sun is shining, it’s all sunshine and rainbows.
I try to find something positive in every little negative thing that comes my way, and make the best of it. I always have ideas for something fun. I’m almost always in a good mood. I can’t stand seeing people suffer. I’m always there for everyone.
I love mothering people, cooking for them, treating them like they’re in a hotel, spoiling the people I love. I have so much love inside me, and I love sharing it with my loved ones.
I’m absolutely spontaneous — with me, you can decide right now to drive to Italy to the sea, and I’ll pack my things, take my daughter, and I’m in.
I love food — nothing beats food — but nothing beats sports either. I’m basically a humorous, loving, love-hungry, crazy, quirky, sporty, sushi-eating noodle.
What I really don’t like are negative people — true pessimists, like that Smurf who says “I hate this, I hate that.” I can’t stand people like that.
I like going out sometimes, but usually in a small group or relaxed at home. Unless I’m really in the mood, then I’ll go party. But mostly, I prefer a cozy evening at home, in a restaurant, or a quiet bar.
It really depends on the people I’m with and my mood — then I’m up for almost anything. But if my social battery is empty, I just sit on the couch or lie in bed and watch TikToks for hours.
16. Not long ago, your name appeared in the press regarding your apartment in Switzerland. The issue involved complaints from neighbors about your sexual activities at home — especially allegedly visible porn recordings on your balcony. Media claimed you received a warning from your landlord and risked eviction. Would you like to comment on this today and tell our readers how the story ended?
Yes, that was a funny story too — where my neighbors felt the need to make my life difficult with claims that weren’t true and for which there was never any proof.
In the end, I haven’t heard anything from the property management since. I think they got a little scared because I went to the media. But it’s absolutely unacceptable to spread such false accusations — especially from neighbors who, just before the first article came out, were still accusing me of living off welfare, and then suddenly they “see” me filming porn.
It’s pretty funny. But I’m above it. I find it amusing how much effort people put into making my life difficult — and I just laugh about it.
At the moment, I still live in the apartment and nothing else has happened. But I still want to move — not because of the neighbors, but because I simply want a new apartment. I like a change of scenery from time to time.
17. You are an energetic, determined, and confident young woman who masters her life with humor and drive. Professionally, you are fully established, as a mother you take your responsibilities seriously, and as a person you seem to enjoy life to the fullest whenever time allows. But what comes next? What are your future plans as Tamytation? What are your private and personal wishes for the future as a woman and mother?
I’m definitely not at the end yet. I’m giving so much effort to achieve much, much, much more — and hopefully also influence society a little, so that people carry more love in their hearts instead of focusing on negativity and hate.
I want to grow bigger. I want to become well-known. And I’m ready to work very, very hard for that.
I’m excited for everything that’s still to come — all the people I will get to meet, all the experiences I’ll get to have, all the events I’ll be invited to, and every award I may possibly win.
And as a mother, I will give everything to teach my child the right values — so she won’t become a bully, and won’t allow herself to be bullied either. So she can rise above things, become as strong as her mom, and never give up. Everything that happens will make her stronger.
